Since I know I have a lot of people following our pregnancy and praying for us, I wanted to give an update tonight.
Backtracking a bit, since the week of Thanksgiving, my gallbladder has been giving me some trouble. The week after Thanksgiving, I had my first gallbladder attack, and it has gone downhill since. I've been trying to manage the frequent gallbladder attacks with a strict gluten free, dairy free, sugar free, nut free, egg free, low fat diet, but my gallbladder has continually become more dysfunctional as time has went on.
Two Mondays ago, I ended up in the ER because the pain was so severe. When they did an ultrasound, they were unable to find any gallstones or any evidence of infection, so they sent me home with a strong oral pain medicine. Since then, my obgyn has been closely monitoring me, and the game plan was for me to just tough it out until Pax could be safely delivered in April. Since I have been continuing to lose weight pregnant, not gain weight as expected, there has been some reason for concern. So far, all of my labs and ultrasounds have indicated that Pax is healthy and is not being negatively affected by any of the health struggles I have had. I believe it's because so many of you have been praying with us that God would keep him safe during this pregnancy.
This past Friday night, I had an extremely severe attack where the pain was no longer manageable with the strongest oral pain medicine I could take while pregnant. Upon talking to my obgyn, I began an all liquid diet for Saturday and Sunday to try to avoid more gallbladder attacks. Unfortunately, I've never completely recovered from the attack Friday, and I have been much sicker than I was before. I still don't hurt as much during the day as I do at night, but my energy level is really lagging and I just don't feel good.
Today, my obgyn referred me to a local general surgeon, and he wants me to reconsider operating now- not later. The plus side of me being so small this pregnancy is that they may be able to do a laparoscopy still even though I am crossing over into my third trimester. Until today, I had understood that a laparoscopy was no longer possible.
Tomorrow morning, I am scheduled for another ultrasound with a fatty meal test. The point of the test is to throw me into a gallbladder attack, so they can verify 100% that it is indeed my gallbladder causing the pain and sickness. I am nervous about the test, because the attacks I have had lately have been worse than labor was with Abby. Please pray that if it is my gallbladder (as symptoms seem to indicate) that the test would be 100% definitive and that God would give me the grace to get through the pain and discomfort of the test. My worst fear tomorrow is that the test would be inconclusive.
Friday morning, I follow-up with my general surgeon to discuss surgery options and what is safest for Pax and me.
This is all moving fast, so I would appreciate prayers for clear direction, clear answers, and wisdom. Please pray for Pax's safety and my safety. Please pray that God would give us all peace during the next few days. Abby has been really concerned lately that I am dying, and it breaks my heart to hear a 3 year old ask such tough questions. Obviously, I feel concerned about the safety of Pax through all of this. Bryan feels the weight of everything. We did just launch a church two weeks ago!
I don't like what is happening. It does make me uncomfortable. It does make me feel anxious, but I do know that God is sovereign and in control. As much as I wish and pray for instantaneous healing, at this point, that's not been His will. For now, we'll just continue to trust Him one moment at a time. God is good. His plan for me is good. It may be painful, uncomfortable, and not my will to go through this, but it's still ultimately for His good and my good. I will choose to rest in Him.
Thanks for the prayers.